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Tuesday Thought

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                                               Everyone you meet is your mirror. Why is that? We come to understand ourselves best through our relationships with other people. We can only be triggered by something we have experienced  ourselves. The traits we tend to dislike in others are usually  the traits we do not like about ourselves. We then tend to judge and criticize these characteristics. This calls to mind the  analogy of pointing a blaming finger at someone. One finger is  pointing at another person, and three are pointing back to ourselves. When certain characteristics in someone's personality trigger a negative reaction from you, there is something within you that is coming up because it is ready to be healed. Usually, it represents issues from your past that have gone unresolved. An example of this would be constantly attracting people...

Change the way you think

  Thinking deeply enough to understand the real point. It's not to discover what you'd actually do if you didn't have to worry about money, it's about the  essence of what you'd do and how you can incorporate  that into your everyday life. Would you vacation, would you keep your current job? It just goes to show  you whether you value relaxation or accomplishments or whatever else, and understanding what you value is  crucial to understanding who you are.   Take photos to remember happy moments, not prove  that you looked good or did something cool. Make a special album on your phone just for " happy moments." When you feel good or are enjoying yourself or have  some kind of revelation, just take a photo of  whatever's in front of you ( however unworthy of  Instagram it is). When you look back at these seemingly random snapshots, you'll experience those feelings all over again. You'll see, by contrast, the emotional difference between ca...

Willing to look at yourself

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                                                 It took me a very long time to discover myself in a way that I can express myself, my thoughts and visions. Is there anyone reading this? Can I really reach you with my words? Do I make a difference? That remains a question, but I like to try. And this is why: Along the way I found out what works and what doesn't work for me. I know my low points, my weaknesses and I know better than anyone how I work. As I always say, and it is and remains a cliché, treating another as you would like to be treated yourself is the key. Unfortunately, I cannot control how someone else thinks, how they treat me and in what situations that has brought me. A lot has happened so that I have lost hope often enough, confidence has been damaged and I have often stood on the brink of collapse. Yet with time and awareness I have found my way ...