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LEARN TO SEE

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                                                                        The most attractive thing about you should have less to do with your face and body, and more to do with your heart and how you treat other people. Let's face it, we see an appearance first and have our first impression based on an appearance. Our appearance is where we can hide behind. But an appearance does not say anything about a character. Nowadays it seems that we judge each other on our appearance, who we are and what we stand for does not seem to matter. No effort is made to get to know the person behind an appearance. It is our own mental attitude which makes the world what it is for us. Our thoughts make things beautiful, our thoughts make things ugly. Not our eyes. The whole world is in our minds. Learn to see things in prop...

Tuesday Thought

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                                               Everyone you meet is your mirror. Why is that? We come to understand ourselves best through our relationships with other people. We can only be triggered by something we have experienced  ourselves. The traits we tend to dislike in others are usually  the traits we do not like about ourselves. We then tend to judge and criticize these characteristics. This calls to mind the  analogy of pointing a blaming finger at someone. One finger is  pointing at another person, and three are pointing back to ourselves. When certain characteristics in someone's personality trigger a negative reaction from you, there is something within you that is coming up because it is ready to be healed. Usually, it represents issues from your past that have gone unresolved. An example of this would be constantly attracting people...