Don't take it personally

Whatever happens around you, don't take it personally. 
Nothing other people do is because of you. It is because
of themselves. Even when a situation seems so personal, 
it has nothing to do with you. What they say, what they do, 
and the opinions they give are projections of their own 

internal thoughts. Everyone has their own reality. When 

we take something personally, we make the assumption
that they know what is in our reality. When we take 

something personally, we make the assumption that they 

know what is in our reality, and we try to impose our 

reality onto theirs. When we don't take things personally,
if gives us more power over our thoughts, feelings, and 

actions. When we don't take things personally, we 

recognize the individuality of others and we can accept 

that other people are different from us. We have little
control over how others view us and relate to us. We 

have more control over how we respond to it. The 

truth is that we tend to make assumptions and 

judgement about other people without knowing the 

full story. And more often than not, what we assume 

about a person is wrong.