Life: You need to know what it is

                                                    

So figure out what you most need to heal within your-

self by seeing what you most want to change in others.

Doing so will free you in a way you can't imagine. Doing

so is necessary piece of the life-you-want puzzle,

because all the energy you're using trying to avoid,

deflect, delude your way into not acknowledging what

you need to heal/change/deal is being wasted, at best,

and is actually actively keeping you from the life you

want, at worst.

What is worth suffering for?

Everything is hard in some way. It's hard to be in the

wrong relationship. It's hard to be in the right one.

It's hard to be broke and miserable, it's hard to achieve

your dreams. It's hard to be stuck in the middle, not really

feeling anything at all. Everything is hard, but you

choose your hard. You choose what's worth it. You don't

choose whether or not you'll suffer, but you do choose

what you want to suffer for.

What owns you in this life?

Is it your desire for happiness? The past? The relationship

that almost-was-but-ultimately-didn't? Your body hang-up?

Your fear? Your loneliness? Your lack of self-worth?

Everybody has one thing that ultimately owns them, drives them,

controls them at some visceral level. It's the pattern that

everything else is rooted in; it's the issue that crops

up again and again. It's what you insatiably seek, then run

await from, only to find you ran right into it. What 

owns you in this life makes up the majority of what you do,

so you need to know what it is.